Reconciliation Agreements in Family law
I know it is odd for a family law attorney to say, but our business is not to divorce people. Our goal is to enable healthy relationships and situations. Therefore, not everyone we meet needs to be divorced. Divorce is only one option when married couples face challenges; however, divorce is not the only option. There are many ways to address contentious issues between a married couple that does not require a courtroom or divorce.
One such option is the Reconciliation Agreement.
The law permits consenting spouses to freely enter into agreements when they are in the process of reconciling. These agreements can address issues that often give parties the peace of mind they need to move forward with reconciling because they know how issues like property rights and financial support obligations will be handled in the event of a future separation and divorce.
Even though parties cannot address all issues that are typically handled during a divorce, being able to address some of them, can significantly reduce the amount of conflict, and potential litigation in the future. Especially when finances and miscommunications can bring about conflict, spouses can take a breath and attempt to refocus on what they truly want in a marriage, with a Reconciliation Agreement paving the way for these adjusted understandings and arrangements.
It is important to work with an experienced attorney on this type of agreement to ensure any reconciliation agreement does not negatively impact any prior agreements or estate plans that may exist, does not violate public policy, and that you are aware of what impact reconciliation can have on any pending proceedings, such as divorce.
Reconciliation agreements are a unique tool in the family law toolbox to assist families in moving toward healthy, happy relationships. Making ways for healthy families to thrive in the Carolinas – that is the goal of my work.
If you or somebody you know wants to learn more about Reconciliation Agreements, our team at Modern Legal is here to help.
Please note: these educational materials are based on North Carolina and South Carolina law where my legal practice is based. While the insights may have wide applicability, readers should consult with an attorney regarding the specific laws in their state or country.
Written by: Tiffany A. Byrd
Family is at the heart of everything I do, both personally and professionally. As a Family Law Attorney, I combine my passion for helping others with my unique journey—from growing up as the eldest child in a single-parent household to becoming the first attorney in my family. My experiences shaped my dedication to advocating for families in their most critical moments. Whether you’re building, protecting, or securing your family’s future, I’m here to help you find meaningful resolutions tailored to your needs.