Spring is around the corner! It is the time we clean the dust from the corners of our homes, begin removing things that no longer serve our needs, and freshen our homes in time to enjoy quality time with friends and family. It is also the perfect time to take a minute to consider or review how you wish for your “estate” should be handled after you pass away whenever that may be.
The era of the COVID pandemic has shown us all that things can change in an instant. Taking the time to express your wishes for your “estate” is a gift to your surviving loved ones that can never be understated. A “Will” is a document that leaves instructions on how you wish for your “estate” to be handled or divided after your death. This document, which can take a couple different forms, is a great way to remove what can often be a significant burden on loved ones during an emotionally taxing time by having set instructions on your “last wishes.” Your “estate” in a Will can include your physical belongings, your financials, and any desires you want to express to your loved ones or a Court. In this document, you can specifically state who you wish to have your precious jewelry, your collectibles, or even your desired caretaker for your minor children. Without such a document, the court system and the laws of “intestacy” will decide who receives your prized belongings.
There are a few different forms of Wills in North Carolina, and the most common form is called an “attested” will. This Will is typed, printed, and signed by the owner or “testator” and two witnesses in front of a notary public. Some things to consider when thinking about a Will can include whether you have children from previous relationships or if you wish for any of your assets to be left to a certain family member, friend, or organization.
If you have already created a Will, now is a great time to “spring clean” by reviewing it and making sure any needed adjustments are made. Every situation is unique, and the passage of time looks different for every individual; therefore, it is always good to discuss your specific situation with an attorney to create the best expression of your wishes. Your loved ones will be forever grateful.
Written by: Tiffany A. Byrd
Family is at the heart of everything I do, both personally and professionally. As a Family Law Attorney, I combine my passion for helping others with my unique journey—from growing up as the eldest child in a single-parent household to becoming the first attorney in my family. My experiences shaped my dedication to advocating for families in their most critical moments. Whether you’re building, protecting, or securing your family’s future, I’m here to help you find meaningful resolutions tailored to your needs.
