Any good attorney will tell you that the legal system is not always just or fair. So, what do you do when you feel lost in the legal system? I have 5 tips to help you navigate.
1) Hire an Attorney: First and foremost, it is helpful to hire an experienced family law attorney to help you navigate the experience. Attorneys are trained in the legal system. With that in mind, they can help you walk through the legal system – both the good and the bad. If you have had a bad hearing or do not feel like you are getting adequate support, an attorney can help you understand other paths that may help you reach your ultimate goals in your case.
2) Follow-up: If you are in a case that is involved with the Court, the Department of Social Services (DSS), a Guardian ad Litem, the Sheriff’s Department, the District Attorney’s Office or any other entity, make sure you follow-up with each entity. In general, email is the best and most efficient way to communicate with these outside agencies. Ensure you know what the next steps should be in your case and what is needed from you. You do not want to miss any deadlines or not provide information they have requested, especially if your children are at issue. This is especially important while you are seeking assistance from an attorney should you not have one already.
3) Get Copies: Civil filings are public. This means you can go to the Courthouse and request a copy of your file. Also, with the rollout of eCourts in a number of counties throughout North Carolina, you can access some information and documents online. Anyone can pull a file at the courthouse to learn more about what has been filed in their case. All you need is your name or case number. Many people I meet with do not have any of their pleadings. This then limits the legal advice and strategy I can provide to them until we get a copy of the court filings. Practical note: some counties charge fees for copies of the file, so make sure you a prepared.
4) Track Info: Make sure you keep photos, texts, emails, calendars, notes, etc. of everything going on in your case. Even a timeline can be helpful to your attorney. As your case continues, get a folder (either online or tangible) to keep important events, information, and documents in your case. This will be crucial for your attorney as some items may be used as evidence. Especially in a child support case, for example, make sure you track overnights with your children.
5) Seek Counseling: While you may be doing many active things to help your case, it is always great to check in emotionally with a professional as any legal process can be difficult. Connect with a counselor who understands what you are going through so they can help you through the process. Our Modern Legal team has a great network of professionals to connect you with.
We have all been there when we felt the legal system just did not get it right! But hopefully these tips can give guidance on the best ways to be proactive. As always, connect with an experienced legal team to get your started on the right foot.
If you or someone you know is enduring a family law matter, our Modern Legal Team is here to help.
Written by: Theresa E. Viera
